How do you hint that you're going to break up?
Don't ghost — drop hints.
Instead of ghosting them, try dropping hints. If they invite you to a party, you can say, "Thanks, but I'm going with my friends. I'll see you there." Or the next time they chat you up in the halls, you can refer to them as a "friend" to let them know your true feelings.
Should you warn someone that you want to break up?
Give some warning
It can help to prepare the other person for a breakup conversation. This could be as simple as texting to say, “Hey, I have something serious I'd like to talk about. Is there a good time when you can talk for a little while?”
What's the healthiest way to deal with a breakup?
Talk to family, friends, Elders and others who can support you. It's OK to want some time to yourself but hanging out with supportive people helps get your mind off things, and can help you get a different perspective. Try not to use alcohol and other drugs to deal with the pain.
Should you tell someone you're thinking of breaking up?
Overall, experts agree that communicating your thoughts and feelings toward the relationship is important. If you're unhappy or if something's bothering you, it's really not going to make you feel better if you keep it inside.