How do I know if I'm attracted to her?
There are several body language cues that can hint at your physical attraction, such as pointing your body toward them while talking, blushing, fixing your hair, and smiling. Another common signal is mirroring, during which you'll mimic the movements and speech patterns of the other person.
Am I just physically attracted to her?
If you want to be physically close to them, it may be genuine attraction. Ask yourself if you're physically attracted to them. Everyone has physical preferences when it comes to romantic partners. If you look at them and think about kissing, hugging, and cuddling with them, you're probably attracted to them.
Am I attracted to her or do I love her?
But we can also feel sexual attraction towards people we don't love (e.g., celebrities, random bartenders). The key difference is in their goals. Whereas sexual attraction's end goal is sex, love is oriented towards maintaining a relationship, to keeping a strong connection defined by closeness and shared lives.
Do I like them or am I just attracted?
If you fantasize them day and night, it's attraction. If you don't know them, don't understand them, yet like them, it's attraction. If their past matters more than their present, it's attraction. If you respect their flaws, it's love.